Does couples counseling actually work?

Yes, couples counseling can be highly effective when both partners are committed to the process. Using proven methods like Relational Life Therapy, we provide you with practical tools to break negative cycles, improve communication, and rebuild intimacy, helping you create the relationship you both want.

What if my partner doesn't want to come to therapy?

This is a common concern. I often suggest starting with an individual session to discuss your perspective and explore ways to gently encourage your partner to join. Sometimes, one person changing their communication patterns can positively shift the entire relationship dynamic.

How is your approach different from other couples therapy?

Our approach is different because we use Relational Life Therapy (RLT), which is direct, practical, and focuses on changing behaviors, not just talking about problems. We provide honest feedback and concrete coaching to help you both break free from the patterns keeping you stuck.

Are we too late to save our relationship?

Many couples feel this way, but it's often not too late. Through discernment counseling and our intensive approaches, we can help you gain clarity about your relationship's future. We create a safe space to honestly explore whether you can rebuild your connection or need support in separating peacefully.

Couples Counseling & Therapy Services

Tailored care

Our Approach to Couples Healing

I use Relational Life Therapy (RLT), created by Terry Real, which provides a practical framework for marriage that prioritizes "we" over "me." This isn't typical talk therapy—it involves meaningful mindset shifts and direct coaching. With commitment, I can guide you both toward getting more of what you want in your relationship, creating a foundation where partners share power, value, and respect equally.

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What to Expect in Your Sessions

We begin with a "demo day," carefully examining your interactions to identify where rigidity and disconnection creep in. With this blueprint, we work with both partners to explore deeper meanings, hopes, and motivations. Once we establish a solid foundation, we focus on rebuilding and repairing your bond, providing you with practical ways to maintain positive momentum long after therapy ends.

Couple receiving Couples Counseling & Therapy Services | New Braunfels, TX at Knowing Connection Therapy.

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Why Choose Us: The Benefits of Our Work Together

At Knowing Connection, we are specially certified in Relational Life Therapy and personalize this approach for each unique couple. We're fellow travelers who aren't afraid to share relevant personal examples of relational recovery. Through our work, you can achieve:

Deeper Understanding

The "missing piece" for connection

Break Destructive Cycles

Escape draining reactive patterns

Renew Emotional Intimacy

Rediscover genuine partnership

Practical Relationship Tools

Skills for lasting connection

How to get started

Begin Reconnecting in New Braunfels, TX

Schedule a Free Consultation

Reach out to schedule a complimentary 15-minute call to discuss your relationship needs

Begin Your Relational Recovery

We'll book your first session and complete simple digital paperwork to prepare for our work together

Start Your Path Forward Together

Arrive at our New Braunfels office or join via secure virtual session to begin rebuilding your connection

Your neighborhood Expert

Meet Your Therapist

I'm Jess Johnson, LMFT-Associate supervised by Susan Gonzales, LMFT-S, LPC-S, the heart behind Knowing Connection Therapy. I believe in showing up as a real person in the therapy room—bringing warmth, honesty, and my own life experience as a wife and mother to our work. My approach is built on the idea that you are the expert on your own life, and my role is to be a compassionate guide who helps you uncover your inner wisdom and strength.

My greatest honor is being trusted to walk alongside you as you find your way back to a more authentic and connected life.

Learn more about Jess